They're always bashing other artists when it comes to their relationships. Everyone can have a preference or a relationship they want to see happen but there needs to be a limit. I actually saw this article when it just come out and I've seen all these negative comments come through. It's sad to see comments of people talking about "Maybe Yonghwa and Seohyun are just secretly dating" and then somebody comes along and says back "Stop being mentally insane they're not dating he belongs with PSH".
Do we as fans rlly have to push one pairing or another and insult anyone that you do not agree with? It's pathetic to be honest. The sadder fact is, this isn't even the biggest problem and this happens with almost all other idols in Korea to the point where we get these "scandals" that everyone talks about and they are forced to hide their relationships. It's perfectly fine to comment that you like a pairing.
I for one love Yonghwa's and PSH relationship, they seem like true friends that can count on each other. He also has great chemistry with Seohyun as well and as a fan of SNSD I'm very pleased they still keep in touch and see each other. But that doesn't mean we need to post negative things to the opposite pairing and try to twist words and make more of these fake "scandals". There has to be a limit otherwise it's just obsessing over artists that you want to see together.
One person likes Yongseo and the other like Yongshin and suddenly we get arguments for no god damn reason. Then more Yongseo fans come to argue back at the other Yongshin fans that come along. This needs to stop. It's already hurting many other idols and it shouldn't matter who they date since we as fans should just support ; them.
Yongseo fans, it's fine to wish for their relationship and wonder about all those coincidences cuz that's just curiosity. Yongshin fans, it's fine to like their closeness and wish for them to get together as well. Hell, even these "theories" that everyone posts is generally harmless cuz they're just that, theories or ideas that they wonder if it is true. What is not fine is when fans get all defensive when they see someone post something they don't like.
It's natural for everyone to have their own opinion but it shouldn't get to the point where it causes arguments between fans and makes trouble for the artists. Just scrolling through the comments I see several people just saying "That's pretty strange how there's so many coincidences" and "I wonder how you get into the wrong car even if the license plate is similar" and then some stupid fan fight occurs with "You're mentally insane if you think they're gonna get together" and "STFU you Yongseo fans are so stupid he belongs with ShinHye".
And then they retaliate back with their own negative comments This just needs to stop. Like I said, even if there is alot of evidence pointing to a relationship, you don't have to go all crazy acting like this confirms anything. And even if there truly is a hidden relationship, who are we to pester them into confirming it until there is solid proof like them on an actual date?
Fans need to calm down about these shippings. Yonghwa is close with both ShinHye and Seohyun and if there is a relationship going on it will be eventually revealed and what we say won't change the fact that they have begun to date. These artists who work hard as it is don't need angry so called "fans" that insult them and other true fans just because the pairings didn't go as they wanted. So just stop all this bullshit of arguing just because someone has an opinion.
And just in case people think I'm siding with one pairing, I'm not biased in any way. I'd be happy with anyone they end up with. Opinions are fine, just don't turn that into obsessing YongSeo fans and YongShin fans stop obsessing as well in the fact that you need to argue back about a pairing. Anyways, this message has gone long enough and if none of you want to accept what I'm saying, then I can't change how you act.
And finally, this message is not for all YongSeo and YongShin fans as I'm sure there are many of you that like your respective pairings but don't turn your opinions into arguments like others do so I hope those of you that are just fans don't get offended.
I'm just stating that in general, these shippers tend to get a little crazy. Leave these artists alone to date whoever they want to. It's sad that in Korea relationships are hidden due to crazy fans that can't accept reality. Stay strong guys, and don't let some of these obsessive shippers get in the way of the relationships you want to have.