Girls often text differently from their male counterparts. If you're a guy, it can be tough to figure out what a girl really means. Is she just asking for directions, or something more? Was that really just a picture of puppies? Once you understand how she's trying to communicate with you over text, it will be a lot easier to tell if she's interested. Below you'll find plenty more ways and lots of details. She texts you very frequently and often initiates conversation.
She keeps the conversation going when she could have ended it. She sends you pictures, either of things that she thinks are funny or cute or pictures of herself. She replies to your texts quickly. She texts you at night. She uses lots of emojis and rarely gives you one-word answers to your texts. She sends you poetry, song lyrics, or articles that she likes.
She asks you questions. She asks to hang out with you or see you in person. Cute ones with pictures of her face Ones where she sends you an inside joke. Ones that brush your ego, compliment you, and leave a ; Ones that try to initiate hanging out Ones asking for your help. What Is She Texting? This should be your first question: And is there a deeper meaning beneath her words?
Lighthearted Texting There are lots of fun, little texts that you may not even think about, but that also give subtle hints that this girl likes you and wants you to like her. Here are some signs to look out for. If she sends you a message that is meant to be taken as funny or random, and it's out of the blue, she probably wants to flirt with you. If she is asking for directions or something basic, she is probably only asking for directions. She'll bring up inside jokes as a way to break the ice.
Any kind of "breaking the ice" topics are a good sign that she likes you. If you have no idea why she's starting a conversation through text and it seems comical, she definitely likes you. If she brings up anything featuring words such as: Girls are not as direct as guys and these seem like hot buzz words to throw to see if you react.
Girls who do this might not be looking for a relationship, but something more short term. Either way, they're probably being flirty. If she asks what you like about her looks, such as whether her hair is curly or straight, it's because she wants to know what appeals to you.
Same goes with what colors suit her, which of her outfits you like best, etc. Girls may get weird or shy away if you become too overt or sexual.
Be a gentleman to her so you don't freak her out. Girls are more sensitive in some ways about language, so consider the possible effect of an innocent innuendo about 5Xs before sending.
She will have an assortment of nicknames for you. If you receive a message with more than ONE nickname, she likes you. If she calls you out for something or playfully teases you, she's comfortable with you and may be being flirty. If she texts you about her family or pets, she probably wants you to know them and associates you with them, or is very close to her family.
Same goes for texting you about anything positive or cute. She probably associates you with those feelings. Seriously, once I texted a guy about puppies that I saw from my car. I wasn't really texting him about puppies. He ended up liking the puppy text, by the way. If she talks about other guys to you, this isn't good.
Guys sometimes talk about the girls they like to the girl they really like; girls don't really do that. If they tell you about guys they like, most likely they see you as a friend. Girls keep their business private when they think they might have a chance with you. She Seriously Likes You. If a girl is texting you during tough times or about serious things in her life, and especially if she's allowing herself to be emotionally vulnerable with you, that's a huge deal because it means she trusts and respects you.
Of course, a girl might trust and respect you and still only see you as a friend. But chances are, if she's letting herself get that close to you, she probably likes you as something more. The following are text message signs that will let you know that this girl really, really likes you. If she sends you a nice text after you have had a breakup with someone else, consider this a sign of careful interest.
She's on top of what's going on, but she doesn't want to be a jerk and swoop in on you. Instead, she's checking in on you to see how you're doing and see if she can do something about it.
She wants to be around you, and to be there for you if you need it. If she texts you when there's a problem and she needs help. You're one of the few people she thinks will be handy in a situation that takes problem-solving, whether killing a spider, finding her keys, or comforting her when she is sad. If she writes to you talking about her day, she likes the attention you give her and she wants to open up to you. If she's talking a lot to you, she wants you to open up.
She may not be sure how to get you to talk. Women love listeners, but they love when you talk too. They see it as an affirmation that the relationship isn't just one-sided. If she texts you a compliment, she might be thinking of you and missing you. If she texts you an "I miss you" out of the blue or after a long text conversation: She's either been dying to say that, or has been thinking about you a lot and is probably feeling like others don't compare.
Because, you know, others don't compare. She'll give you advice. Girls knows it's weird to give advice in a text message, especially long advice, but if she cares about you and notices something that you're doing is off, then she'll be dying to confront it.
If she texts you about events that are way out in the future, she might want you to accompany her and is telling you to keep your calendar free Women drop hints about what they want to do with you.
They have visions about having fun, and they want someone to go with them, play games, eat food, and spend quality time. If she texts you an "I'm sorry" message, then she doesn't want to be on bad terms with you.
She cares about you and about what you think of her. She probably really is sorry. If she texts you "I like you" or "I love you" multiply this by about Unless she dishes that out to everyone, those words are gutsy.
If a woman texts you when she is sad this can go two ways: Unfortunately, she may be manipulating you and knows that emotions will hook a guy, or 2. She may need comfort and sees you as someone she can trust when vulnerable. If a woman is being vulnerable with you, and is truly honest, that shouldn't be taken for granted. She probably MORE than likes you.
Try to respect that vulnerability and act worthy of her trust. When Is She Texting? Timing and context are all important when figuring out text messages. How often does she text you? Trying to Meet Up Are you trying to upgrade your interactions from social media to real life hanging out? Here are some signs that will help you figure out if she'd like to do that, too, and if she is using text messaging to try and find a way to spend more time with you. If she mentions something that could be an activity, she's trying to gauge if you would like to do that activity with her.
For example, "Do you like bowling? If she texts you to try to meet up with you, she's trying to create a connection and see how you're doing. Questions such as asking you to do a favor for her, asking to borrow a book, or asking you to escort her through an unpleasant situation are all good signs. These are open-ended interactions that create an opportunity for you If she says she is busy, more than likely she'll try to schedule you in at another time right then and there.
If she leaves it at ambiguous "busy" she's probably trying to be nice about letting you down, or is completely booked either way, it's better to leave the ball in her court. If she makes up a ridiculous excuse like, "I have to watch my cat tonight.
If she texts you to see if you are going to a party, she more than likely wants to go with you or see you there. Source Frequency and Timing Often, the amount a girl texts you is even more important than what she's actually texting.