However, studies have shown that teens ages are at high risk for abuse, as they are beginning to explore dating and intimacy. Additionally, statistics have shown that teens are the least likely group to disclose warning signs or abuse to a friend, family member or trusted adult and especially to report dating violence to the police.
What is teen dating violence? The abusive teen uses this pattern of violent and coercive behavior in order to gain power and maintain control over the dating partner.
Common myths about teen dating violence Myth: More then 1 in 10 teenagers experience physical violence in their dating relationships. Jealousy and possessiveness are a sign of true love.
Jealousy and possessiveness are a sign that the person sees you as a possession. It is the most common early warning sign of abuse. Thirty percent of all women who are murdered in this country are killed by their husband or boyfriend. According to a Massachusetts study, that same high percentage applied to teens aged Alcohol causes people to become abusive.
People can't be held accountable for what they do when they're drunk. Many people who abuse their partners do not drink heavily, and many alcoholics do not beat their partners. While some abusers do hurt their partners while they are drunk, the alcohol is an excuse — not a cause. Victims bring on the abuse themselves. They ask for it. Perpetrators believe they have the right to use abuse to control their partner, and they see the victim as less than equal to themselves.
The victim has no control over the abuser. If a person stays in an abusive relationship, it must not really be that bad. People stay in abusive relationships for a number of reasons: Most abusers are bums or crazy people. Abusers are found in all classes and types of people — rich, poor, professional, unemployed, black, white, urban, and rural.
What makes dating abuse in teen relationships different from adult domestic abuse? There is extraordinary peer pressure, societal pressure and even perhaps parental pressure for teens to have a romantic partner — particularly for girls to have a boyfriend, and for boys to be sexually active.
Some teen victims are very concerned about their parent s finding out that there has been abuse in their relationships. Some teen victims attend the same school as their abuser. At the very least this means they must see the person every day. In the worst-case scenario, this poses a serious safety risk to the victim.
Even in cases where a restraining order has been issues, the abuser has certain rights that can make safety planning difficult. Coping with teen dating violence Teens who face dating violence may face multiple issues. This is true for adult victims, however the types of problems may be different.
In many ways there are fewer resources available for help and which are specifically for teenagers. This website was created as the ultimate resource to engage, educate and empower youth and young adults to prevent and end abusive relationships. The link to information on the chat line is below: