When to Stop Messaging a Woman: You spend so much time and energy searching OkCupid, reading profiles, and crafting good messages. But after all that effort spent to get a reply, it can be hard to tell when you should stop messaging a girl. Here are the common situations guys get stuck in. Your messages are well-thought-out and funny. You ask questions and keep the conversation going.
A more polite but still decisive way of saying this: Let me know if you are. Otherwise, good luck on here. Or maybe she feels more comfortable opening up to someone in writing, rather than in person. First, decide how much longer you can handle messaging without meeting. Let her know you understand her concerns. Suggest a quick date coffee, lunch in a very public place. Start planning the first date! You could show her you have nothing to hide by offering to friend her on Facebook, or ask if she wants to Skype, text, or talk on the phone.
You and I have been having such a great time talking, I think we will be! Put it to the test. So you do the same: If she replies with a new topic or a question, congratulations! She probably just needed some prompting. But be prepared to keep the conversation going the whole date, too.
But this the point of dating: However, she might be thinking things are going just fine. Thank you for taking the time to get to know me, too.
I wish you all the best with your search! Nothing wrong with a little good karma! May you never haunt OkCupid again! Before you log off, give a heads-up to any other girls you were messaging.
A polite goodbye similar to: But I actually just started seeing someone, and I want to see where it goes. Conclusion It sucks to get stuck in a dud messaging situation. These tips can help you figure out if the situation is worth saving and how to handle it.