We have 2 boys, 5 and 2, and I would give my life for my family. After having my youngest son, I felt alone and was always at home with the kids by myself. Him and my husband are like night and day. My husband being a corporate man and his brother owns a landscaping business.
My husband is very studious, straightlaced and matter of fact but his brother is sort of street smart, self taught works with his hands kind of man. Back in April we had a bar-b-que at our house and his brother was there talking about how much my son has come along with dribbling a basketball and my husband got jealous and made a scene saying that he had kids of his own to raise and that he needed no help raising ours.
His jealousy went through the roof when I backed his brother and told him that I appreciated that he makes the time to do these kind of things with our sons. The next week when my husband left town his brother called and asked if it was okay to come and get my sons to take them putt-putting and asked if I wanted to come along and I did. We had a good time and we came back to my house and I cooked dinner for all of us, the kids ate and fell asleep. I felt horrible about it and thought it was a one time ordeal and was scared to face my husband when he came home.
I opened the garage door so he could get what he needed and leave and he came in the house to let me know he was leaving and I said okay thanks but he closed the door behind him and starting kissing me and once again we had sex.
Please tell me what to do. Good day to you, sis! Thank you for writing in and sharing your story. Oh dear, this is so scandalous on so many levels! When you took those vows with your husband, he became your family! It also sounds as though you two have found the passion the both of you are lacking in your marriages. This is not okay. When the two of you decided to romp around on your kitchen floor, you ran the risk of losing your families!
You guys have nothing to gain, everything to lose and for what? Something that can never be! Come out the clouds, sis! The both of you have too much to lose and it would be in your best interests to stop sexing each other up while your man is out of town. You can continue on with life with your husband and kids and be haunted by your paranoia until he finds out, because he will.
If you love him, love him enough to the tell him the truth and allow him to decide what he wants to do and how he wants to handle the situation. He deserves to know the truth and a chance to free himself from the madness you and his brother have created. Do the right thing, sis. Do the right thing.
What do you think she should do Bossip readers? Confess or take it to the grave? Please remember to e-mail all topic suggestions, feedback and questions to loveandrelationships bossip.