They know what they want, and they have experience. This is because women are highly emotional. For us guys, we can look at a girl and know within seconds if we want to have sex with her — and we can be ready for that sex right away.
Ask her open-ended questions about her passions, experiences, dreams, and adventures Look into her eyes for the majority of the conversation Keep the conversation focused on her, but listen and relate back with experiences and stories from your own life after she tells you something about her life Communication during sex: Moan to show her when you like something Look into her eyes Communication after sex: Ask her what positions she likes most in bed.
Turn Up the Dominance When learning how to have great sex with older women, the idea of dominance can be very important. They enjoy having this control — but in the bedroom, they want to feel the opposite. They want to be able to let go completely and feel like the man is in total control. That requires you to be confident in the bedroom and also extremely dominant. Here are some ways you can be more dominant in the bedroom: Assume she likes it and but pay attention to how she is reacting.
Grab her hair from the roots and lightly pull it back Choke her. Put your hand there lightly at first, and if she shows no resistance, then go a little bit harder. Keep it relatively light though, at least the first time, and then ask her afterward if she likes to be choked.
So, you need to be open-minded, leave your ego at the door, and be willing to take and accept their advice. She enjoyed the sex we had, but she just wanted me to last longer, breathe deeper, and be more in the moment. Instead, I embraced it, and improved on all of those things. Now, I meditate consistently, have full control of my breath, and am deeply in the moment during sex.
And the foreplay can start before anyone takes their pants off. Once you play the music and light the incense and candles, you can tell her to lie down and then give her a sexual massage. Rub down her whole body. Back, head, arms, legs… and inch closer and closer to her pussy. Then, turn her around on her back and massage the front of her body with her hands, and then lightly kiss her breasts. Work your way down each leg with your mouth, then slowly back up to her pussy.
To have better sex with older women, you need to build your stamina and last longer. You should be able to go at it for at least minutes consistently — without worrying about finishing too quickly the whole time.
Here are some tips to improve your stamina: Start meditating 10 minutes per day so you can be more in the moment. Vary how quickly you thrust, and even stop thrusting from time to time, and instead move in a circular motion inside of her.
Not only will you enjoy the sex a lot more yourself, but older women will literally get hooked on sex with you.