Cougar Town, Sex and the City, The Graduate — cougars have been present in popular culture for quite some time, but have never been more greatly represented on TV and film as they are right now. There is something of a fascination with this creature in modern media, the toyboy-seeking sexual predator, and it seems to have led to an increased acceptance of the age gap between younger men and older women.
What is a cougar? How to date a cougar The main thing to remember when dating a cougar is that the age difference means you are going to be treading on unfamiliar ground. She will be different to those girls you are used to dating with ten years or so extra life experience to draw upon and to have been shaped by. Of course, the same basic rules apply to dating a cougar as they do any other woman. Just to give you guys out there with little to no experience of dating the older woman a helping hand, follow the rules listed below to ensure smooth sailing on those uncharted waters.
Cougars are fierce and wilful animals, so much so that even a full grown grizzly bear would hesitate to take one on. And there you have it. Women hit their sexual peaks between their mid-thirties and forties, and when they hit it, they really do hit it. If you have anything less than an atomically fierce sex drive, then you may want to think twice about the whole thing.
Otherwise she will end up unsatisfied and likely to look elsewhere. In fact, avoid the whole age thing altogether. Take control of the situation, be assertive and prepare yourself for some truly earth-moving make up sex.
One of the reasons that she has probably gone on the prowl is that she feels she has lost the buzz in her life. Everything seems a little humdrum. The last thing she needs in her life right now is a repeat performance, so be spontaneous, interesting and exciting. How to make sex even more exciting ] 6 Step it up. This means that you really do have to pull out your ace card on every occasion, whether regarding the kind of restaurants you are taking her to, the gifts you are buying her, the sexual adventures you are ensuing upon, or whatever else.
Consequently, any compliments that you can throw her way are going to be highly appreciated, making her feel confident and self-assured, and bringing out the sexy mature goddess side to her that so attracted you in the first place.
It might be an idea to moderate your approach or suffer the consequences. There could be ex-husbands and boyfriends to contend with for a start, with consequent financial and property ownership issues.
But there also may be issues with the stigma surrounding age gap relationships, whether from the general public, or even family and friends. Be prepared to batten down the hatches and weather out the storm. She may, for example, just be after the physical relationship that she has up until now been denied, and may not care for anything deeper.
The same might be true for you. Liked what you just read? Currently reclining with a peaceful and contented smile upon his face, with perhaps just a hint of mystery and steely resolve, Philip Hegarty has an obviously i Follow Philip on Twitter.