The dudes especially too seem to be downright hostile to talking to any new people. Whereas the not so good looking are often very interesting? I go to quite a few interesting activities every week, and no one there is ever attractive. I mean, I love these people and these activities, but I'd like to find an attractive mate as well. Talking to the good looking people can be well I'm not trying to bash KC on that point, I think that applies everywhere based on the mechanics of it.
Good looking people have everything handed to them socially speaking and have never had to develop a personality or interesting interests. Maybe a few places like NYC are a little better in this regard, as it's hard to not be interesting in some places like that. But of course if you're just in a typical American small town or suburb, things get very provincial and mainstream.
More on topic, how much of this is KC and how much is some other factor? I looked up some raw numbers on women vs men. KU though I hear has slightly more men like I have heard that the entire west coast is a sausagefest, and that Chicago and some east coast cities like NYC have way more women.
I've heard Texas is kind of a sausagefest too, though I found the women they do have are very attractive compared to the whales here in KC actually, I don't mind somewhat plump girls except for when they too have attitude.
Not sure how any of this plays out on the field though. Of the places I've been to in Westport, such as Kelly's and the Riot Room, had hundreds of dudes, and like five chicks, three of which I went to high school with.
I guess women do go out though, just not as much? Women are probably using their free time on church stuffs, volunteering, and reading and watching TV at home.
I promise, this is not what I do all the time. I make tons of effort to go out and have fun, especially lately now that the college scene is back in action.