Who Is Also My Friend? I just got out of a long term relationship with my ex-fiance. We where friends before we started dating and want to try and stay friends afterwards. I was also good friends with his brother since he always did things with us.
It's his loss, I can do better, and I deserve better. I'm really doing great considering what all happened. Well, here's the thing. After we broke up, I turned to his brother to try and understand it all and get over it, because he too is my friend. Turns out, his brother has a crush on me and has for some time but out of respect for his brother, I of course, was unobtainable.
But, now that I'm not, he wants to go out. The twist to all of this is that during the time I was dating his brother, I always had that un-obtainable attraction to his brother, too! I felt like he was more my type but he WAS married when I met my ex. The brother has since been divorced over a year now.
I would like to know of it is weird to want to go out with his brother. I know him very well, personality wise so it's not like trying to get to know someone I've never been around.
And the stranger thing is, my ex his brother does NOT have a problem with us being friends and also mentioned the only thing weird about us hookin-up, HE SAID, was that he would question my taste in men in a joking manner. The brother is a very sensual, romantic, gentleman that I witnessed thru attempts to saving his marriage and what I was told about how he treated her. Much more so than my ex ever was to me or any woman he ever dated.
He's been a great friend to me thru my heartache of this failed relationship and has helped me with things that guys can help out with when you need them. What should I do?