Is it normal white women find puerto ricans more attractive than white men? From my observations all Puerto Ricans treat their Women like objects, and tend to control every aspect of their lives from the clothing they ware to who they talk to, while they are free to associate with any woman they choose and expect not to be questioned on it.
It always seem to be that Puerto Ricans are all nice, caring, and say they are all about family, etc. Once a Woman decides to date them suddenly they change. It's not a rapid change, but gradually over time. First it starts with how they dress, then they want them to learn Spanish, then they tell them they don't want them talking to other guys,etc. One of my closest friends decided to be with a Puerto Rican.
He tells her how to dress, how to speak, what to speak, and does not allow her to talk to other guys including me, even though I have known her for over 10 years. After a couple months I ran into her at the store. I barely recognized her. She used to dress casual, now it's all about the tight clothing and bright colors. She used to have long straight hair, now she has short curly hair. I asked why she decided to change her looks, her response was that her BF wants her to dress that way.
She even speaks differently now, now she has that " Ghetto" Puerto Rican slang. I told how how I felt, and I wished she would be with a guy that respects her and allows her to be Unfortunately we have to sneak around to talk to each other because she is in fear that if her BF found out he would flip out on her. It's not just her either, all White Woman that date Puerto Ricans I have ever met all end up down that same path with the exceptions of the few that realized they made a mistake and leave their Puerto Rican Boyfriends.
All his friends are that way as well, their Girl Friends can only speak to others within their family or social group, and they have to be present.
Meanwhile they hoot and hollar over any attractive Woman that walks by. Needless to say Puerto Rican Men are less likely to be faithful from my observations. They expect their Girlfriends or Wives to stay home, tend to them hand and foot while they are out joy riding picking up other Woman. She says he treats her good,and I ask by what standards?
He tells her sweet nothings and buys her gifts while he practically keeps her under lock and key. In my opinion it does not matter what a person says or buys for a woman, it's how he treats her over all that decides whether or not he is suited. I understand that White men CAN be this way as well, There are bad apples in every race but normally White men tend to have more respect for their female companions.
What part of that one sided, controlled, and demeaning relationship do White Woman have an urge to migrate to?