How To Get A Girlfriend: Just 20 proven steps you can start using right now to attract the girl you like and make her your girlfriend. Stop trying to get a girlfriend. The first step to getting a girlfriend is to stop trying. Instead go into every new interaction you have with women expecting nothing in return.
Make her notice you. Wear items of clothing and jewellery that attract women and start conversations. Leather jackets, jewellery and tailored suits are a great place to start. Already have a special girl in mind? Get ready to approach her. Limiting beliefs like that will get you nowhere. If you prefer video learning we recommend this video: Approach her with confidence. Instead use a neutral or downwards vocal inflection.
Hold eye contact and tell her why you simply had to come say hello. The best way to do this is with a genuine compliment.
Give her a genuine compliment. Tell her exactly why you approached her and be as specific if you can. Use the first think you noticed about her that attracted you. Teasing is the easiest way to create sexual tension between you and a girl you like. Start teasing girls on a regular basis. How many cats do you have?
Opportunities for teasing will happen naturally when you stick to your opinions and stop fake agreeing with women to please them all the time. Always be looking out for cute things she says or does so you can point them out as being cute or funny. Focus on her for conversation. Listen to her and make her the main subject of your conversation.
Why did you choose this table? No, clearly you chose it because you saw me sitting here! What brought you to the park? Oh, I thought you were rummaging for food in the bins! Why do you hate dogs? She must be a cat lady. Assume she has twelve cats. Going On Dates 9. Ask her out on a date. Build her curiosity, comfort and excitement about meeting up with you first, then ask her out on a date.
An easy way to naturally steer the conversation towards a date is to insinuate the idea of a date first. She wants a lover not a friend. For more texting tips I wrote a full article on how to text a girl without her losing interest here. If you want to get a girlfriend quickly watch this: Where to go on a date. Choose a location that is relaxed, informal and has activities you can get physically intimate with. Avoid dinner dates for the first date.
Zoos are great because you never run out of conversation topics and things to do. Get involved in feeding the animals, giraffes, elephants and goats. Other great locations for intimacy include Hookah bars, bars in general, arcades and ten pin bowling. Cinema is ok for a second date but not for a first date. On the date start by complimenting her.
Women can spend hours choosing a dress, putting on make up and doing their hair for the first date. Having high expectations of people communicates to them that you are high status and not a pushover.
This is incredibly attractive to women because it shows her you respect and love yourself. You are sure of yourself and adamant about getting what you want. A high value male will also be a true gentleman and treat a lady like a lady and be respectful of others. Help her sit down, open doors and overdo it in a chivalrous way. Show you care about her and others by tipping waiters or bar staff. To get respect you must earn respect. Conversation topics to avoid on the date. Avoid these 7 conversation topics on the date at all costs.
The main reason these 7 topics are so destructive is because they kill the mood and spark debate not chemistry. Bragging about how rich you are — Only gold diggers want to know how many cars you have. Quality women will see bragging for what it is: Complaints about your job — Any talk of work is usually boring and negative. Oh and keep any resentment for your job to yourself.
No-one wants to hear it. Money — Save it for the bank. Instead of money talk about your goals in life. Politics — Politics and hot topics lead to heated discussion and debates. Do you want to debate and fall out or do you want to gyrate and make out?
See what I did there? Watch this video if you want to get up to speed quickly: With this you can get a girlfriend in 2 weeks Make her like you by being yourself. Now that you finally understand this the seas will part, water will turn into wine and you will walk on water through the leggy gates of heaven and into the land of milk and honey! Flirt with her physically. Once you stop worrying about the outcome with every girl you meet, relax and actually have some fun, physical flirting will start happening naturally!
Earlier I recommended date locations that organically create opportunities for physical contact. Closing The Deal Make a move and kiss her. Do not try to lock down another date. Keep her hooked between dates. Keep her hooked between dates by not always being available, making her wonder about you and flirting with the future.
The more you keep her wondering about you the more excited she will be about going on another date with you. This is exactly how to get a girl totally and utterly obsessed with you. By remaining jokey and essentially disqualifying yourself from anything serious you will keep her wondering about you: Because expressing your emotional attachment to a girl too early on is a sure fire way to get friend-zoned.
If you want to learn how to get a girlfriend easily watch this: The way to show a girl how much you appreciate her — without revealing your emotions and scaring her away — is to instead show your sexual appreciation for her. What delightful number do you plan to wear on our next encounter? You start to like a girl, so you want to spend more time with her.
As your feelings grow for her, so too does your attachment to that future with her. You really want to make her your girlfriend, so much so, in fact, that you start to get nervous and insecure around her. And you start to feel a little possessive. You try to get her to commit to plans… you subtly hint at the strength of your feelings for her… maybe you even come out and ask her how she feels about you. Let your confidence grow naturally with experience.
Before you go out and use this guide to get the girlfriend of your dreams, there is one more important thing I need to mention about how to naturally develop confidence.
I hope you get a lot of value from it and use it to get the girlfriend of your dreams. You must commit yourself to something far, FAR more important than that: Women are drawn to people who believe in themselves.
Who know what they want.