Marriage is important to everybody but more particularly to women. However, with the significant rise in the number of single ladies in Ghana, you have to wonder what the reason could be. Although, research has shown that some of the single Ghanaian ladies made the tough decision to remain single, but many more did not. Such women who made such decision are regarded as strong and independent women. The same research has shown why this is so: Single Ghanaian ladies think they are getting it right, but they are not.
Read on to see some of the ill conducts that have kept most Ghana ladies Single. Once most single ladies meet a man, they begin to hear wedding bells, picture themselves moving in with him and start trying to get pregnant.
Most men may even mistake it for desperation which is not attractive. You should know that it takes time for two people to invest emotionally and finally get connected enough to take that step.
You really need to change the tactics if you are one of those type of ladies. Some Ghanaian ladies go as far as proposing when it seems like the guy is wasting time. They forget that men love to do the chasing. They build a castle in their minds and end up comparing any man who comes their way with their imaginary man. What is most disturbing is that they are really not ready to be realistic.
Anything less is not an option for them. The truth is that most Ghanaian ladies over-estimate themselves. They want a guy who is tall, dark, handsome, highly intelligent, sophisticated, and cultured, but get disappointed because most of the ones they meet fall short of one or more of the qualities. Those with the qualities they seek after may not want them, but they would rather stay single instead of going for the ones who wants and value them. When the type of men you yearn to have are not interested in you, it only makes sense if you change your dating options.
Turn to those who are readily available and determine to find them attractive. Here is my advice; drop the attitude and irrelevant things and focus on the man who has the reasonable things in the target you have set for yourself. Nobody is saying you should sacrifice everything you have always wanted or be a slave to any man. Such people tend to place more importance on their jobs than their relationships and they expect the guy to make all the sacrifices.
You could say men admire hardworking women, but when stretched beyond reasonable limit, it can turn them off absolutely. Your guy would also want to feel as special as he makes you feel. They expect too much on the first date and when it does not go their way, their perception will change. Most Ghanaian ladies never try to make more findings. It could be the way you dress, or speak or some other trivial issue that really should not matter much.
As you are checking him out, he is equally checking you out and most of the time, it is the ones you pick that will reject you. They are instantly swept off their feet and treated like princesses.
Such men are almost always taken and they are just looking for a distraction. He lavishes money on you and never seems in a hurry to take things to another level. Yet, such ladies would turn down the proposal of real men for such already taken men. Get over the fear of losing a man by confronting him when you feel he is no longer stable. Taking chances to achieve your aim seems more effective than sitting around and waiting for something that will not come.
Well, men recognize this and play on it most of the time. So it would be better if you stomp out of that relationship whenever he proves himself unavailable otherwise, what you will find out later may surprise you.