Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. We had our way of doing it and sadly, it just got into a comfortable routine. To be honest, I had to make myself have sex with him just so he would leave me alone for a few days and quit asking for it.
Here are eight reasons sex after my divorce was better than the sex I had while married: After having sex with only one man for 12 years, being with someone new was exhilarating and made me feel like a woman again! Each guy was completely different and brought a new and exciting bag of tricks into the bedroom, on the couch, or in the shower. Exploring different types of men and their sexuality really opens your eyes to not only what was missing from your marriage, but also what you desire sexually.
Not bad for the self-esteem either, which brings me to number two on the list. Sex during my marriage did nothing for my self-esteem. I wanted to hear how sexy I was or how hot I made him, etc.
Sex as a newly divorced woman, however, pumped up my self-esteem like crazy! Knowing and feeling that someone else craved my body, for me, was an ultimate high. This one was true for me, but might not be the case for all women.
But since my divorce, I have had no problem at all telling my partner s exactly what I wanted. You feel like a teenager again: Remember when you were 16 and the rush you felt when you were making out with your high school sweetheart? Remember the feelings of butterflies whenever you spotted your crush? I am excited to report that those feelings come back!
The first time I kissed a guy after my divorce, I have to admit that I was nervous. The courage it took me to kiss him was well worth the make-out session that followed. Was there something you wanted to try but never had the opportunity? Well, do I have news for you! There are tons of single men out there who would like nothing more than fulfilling your innermost sexual desires. We are sexual beings after all. No more sex on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays only.
No more sex on a schedule. No more boring missionary position every single time you have sex. No more waiting until the kids are asleep. You can now have sex whenever you want, with whomever you want, and in whatever position you should so desire. Even though you were married and had sex with the same man for years, you are still more experienced than you were when you got married.
You know what you are looking for in a sexual partner. Or maybe you would prefer to be the dominant one in the bedroom. Whatever your preferences are, make your experience work for you in finding the right sexual partner. Or at least, the right sexual partner for a night or two.