October 17, After taking Sasha's bootcamp I was really improving, but even though I was being more direct in my interactions, I still felt I was holding myself back and was still worried about being "too sexual" and maybe being criticised or rejected because of it.
This especially hurt me in club situations where you have to be ok with touching girls a lot and going for kisses and slapping their ass really quickly otherwise they'll lose interest, which is not something I've been that used to doing.
I got the Deluxe DVD package, which includes the other speakers that were at the event. Although I agree Yad, Beckster and Marcus are not direct, it's still good to have extra material and have their perspective. I think especially Marcus' material is really good for life in general, and Yad is famous for his daygame so any stuff from him is worth listening to. Their mindset is so clear, straightforward and makes so much sense! After watching their stuff and you get a LOT of material from them - over 3 hours from each!
I went out with a lot of enthusiasm at night with things to try out. It cuts right through the bullshit and most girls will respond really favourably! If not, you know right away and can move on without having wasted 30 minutes "building comfort" only for her to tell you she has a boyfriend or something.
David X's inner-game stuff is also great, just pairing everything down to simply focusing on yourself and your own desires helps you have much more authentic, congruent and confident interactions. I used to always think about what the right thing to say was, or worry if the girl was OK, or if I might be being too creepy or too sexual and if she might be uncomfortable.
If you actually just do what you want to do and say what you want to say, more often then not the girl will love your confidence and totally follow your lead, rather than reacting at all badly! Badboy is also really direct and his specific techniques were really useful for nightgame especailly, rather than mainly mindset and inner game stuff from Alan and Dave.
Finally Sasha is always really funny and is great, however I actually know most of his material from his videos and from his bootcamp so there wasn't a lot of new stuff in there, but all the main direct speakers did reinforce each other about the basic mindset.
After watching the DVD and going out with Dave and Alan's mindset, using some of Badboy's techniques and some of Sasha's funny material, I was doing things like grabbing a girls ass at the bar within a few minutes of talking to her, going for a kiss within 5 minutes of talking to girl after barely having said anything to her, grabbing girls and spinning them around as an opener, whispering to girls about sexual stuff I want to do to them in the middle of a conversation, and more.
The results were amazing! Girls really responded amazingly to all of it! I didn't get slapped, or a drink thrown in my face, or anything like that - the worst thing would be if they moved my hand away or turned their cheek to "reject" a kiss, but they generally would behave sexually and become attracted very quickly! Being direct works, and this is a great DVD to kick-start you into the direct mindset.