When I came back he was dating another girl whom I became friends with quickly. They broke up and she is devastated. A month later he tells me he likes me and has for a while, but she still claims to love him. Angie Hi, I hope you see this and answer. He reached out to several members of the family in an attempt to get her back…she would not budge. I felt so bad for him and out of love for them both she is like a sister to me I did all that I could to help them get back together, having him send letters, flowers..
When I met my Husband, he continued to remain a good friend to both of us. Soon he began to have feelings for me. My relationship with my cousin was so important that there was no way at 1st.
He on the other hand had one other serious relationship, which also ended. All the while I had been asking God for another chance at love.
Back to back so me and my two bestfriends ex are secreatly dating this is what happened One of my bestfriend thought he did drugs so she blocked him from everywhere and the other she was all over othet guys at a party and cheated on him with his bestfriend When i told her we talk nd asked her if we can date she started talking about how she thinks of me as a sister and how its not ok to date your best friends ex and she has a boyfriend.
Me and him got something more then they did nd i like him nd he likes me back i dont know what to do Anonymous So recently I found out that my sister was hanging out with a guy whom I had sexual relations with a couple years ago friends with benefits.. She came out one night and said to me, I lied.. She then got all mad at me like I was in the wrong for getting mad.
So then come to find out she lied to me again, said that they had only hung out the one time and two written sources between the two parties say other wise so I asked her about it again and she flat out lied to me again.
I could never do that to a friend or family member!!! Molly My friends ex is gonna ask me to prom as a friend. What do I do?!? My best friend cheated on her boyfriend. It all happened when he was feeling low and needed a shoulder to cry on. I was there for him. I had a crush on him for a long time. He confessed to me and we are dating now. My friends are really mad at me because they think they broke up because of me.
Even one of my friend unfriended me on Facebook. I think she is one of the most negative, critical person and at school she keeps telling me how I should do things and behave and how to get guys and stuff.
She is a good friend I guess This is my way of hitting back at her. I dont think she deserves him. He is really really cute and I didnt mind losing my virginity to him. I didnt tell him that I was a virgin but i guess he knew I was one by how I behaved the first time. I dont care he is older. He is a really nice guy and really mature and stuff. I have told him not to say anything to her.
He is going back to sea anyway in a couple of months. So he hasnt broken it off with her? Does he still see her too?
Does he have sex with her too? And you lost your virginity to him? I am sure he knew you were a virgin. It is very obvious especially if it was your first time. Does he like you more? He may especially if the other girl is such a bitch. Lindy Am dating my frnd ex boyfriend and she doesnt know i couldnt help my self we love each other but he is about to tell her that she preposed me any advise i can get out there please roserl Totally depends. If it was a long term committed relationship or marriage.
My partner dated one of my friends before me. It lasted three months. We were friends at the same time and remained friends for another year and a half before we went out, and I told her and she said it was okay.
She broke it off with him, btw. We are still close friends. She is since divorcing her husband, and she has hung out with the two of us on a few times. I did tell her about it right away and we talked it over. Definitely depends on the relationship and the circumstances and time frame. I have known him for the last 2 years and I used to hang out with them. She was a real bitch to him and treated him so badly.
I must admit he is a really gorgeous and very good looking guy and I have always fancied him. He was crazy over her but she would flirt with other guys and play mind games with him. I loved doing stuff with him. I liked his maturity and his age didnt matter. I was there at his place when she was losing her virginity to him.
I was covering for her if her parents called. We were still quite young. Soon after that I lost my virginity to him and we have been having regular sex for over a year now. She has since moved interstate but keeps asking me about him.
I think she now wants to get back with him. I havent told her that we were having sex and that I go to his place regualrly.
To me, I dont care what she might think. She broke up with him and I liked him. So I dont regret what I have been doing. Emily Smith My friends Ex just asked me out and he just broke up with her a little while ago and i said yes I dont really believe in girl code but i feel guilty and terrible, and i have no clue what to do. But were keeping it a secret. When I found out, I was left simply heartbroken and feeling completely and utterly betrayed.
In the end, I was left alone to raise my infant daughter, both emotionally and financially. I was also left two best friends short. A mutual friend of ours thought that I should have forgiven my duplicitous and conniving girlfriend for what she had done but I simply could not. The pain that her actions had caused was just too much to bear.
So, not being able to forgive her cost me the friendship of our mutual friend. I never even got a single apology from her. Throughout high school, I had soo many girlfriends think that it was okay to pursue my boyfriend. No guy is worth causing that kind of pain to another! They are farrr too many fish in the sea for that! If your friend means anything to you, please spare her the years of pain that my best friend could not.
Trust me when I tell you. A complete and utter jerk or B. Trying to make their ex jealous or trying to get back at them for breaking their heart or C. Trying to break up your friendship. But for everyone with your experience there are many with good experiences too.
You also go on to blame the guy for being a jerk. Dont you think you need to share some of that responsibility too for expecting too much and setting yourself up for disappointment??
Mostly, for guys sex is a physical need and when you were pregnant he probably felt his sexual needs werent being met and perhaps he felt neglected. I am just saying there are 2 sides to that story. Having a relationship with your friends ex, to me, should be fun without any seriousness. If you are attracted why not?? I dont see anything wrong in wanting to have a sexual relationship with someone you find attractive irrespective of whether he was the ex of your close friend.
In your case, it is slightly different because you both were still together and he abandoned you when you were pregnant. That I agree, is shameful. That specific act is shameful. I dated my very best friends boyfriend even before he became her ex. We used to hang out together and I could sense he liked me a lot.