But when I speak of moving on he seems jealous and I can tell he has some feelings for me. Mardi Gutti I can really relate myself to Laura here. On the third year of being friends we became very close like we often do things together such as singing on a guitar and jogging too. We have a good relationship like almost brothers and sisters. That time I started to feel that something was really missing. Then before he came back to our hometown, I decided to go somewhere far too but I texted him.
I got no reply but at least he knew where I was going. There almost every night I was crying. I really missed him so much like the last thing in my mind before I go to bed and the first name in my mind after walking up is him. I can see his face almost at every corner. That was a real struggle for me. The feeling I had went on as the days went by.
I tried to detach myself from him. Then recently, we meet again in our hometown. We sometimes talk about things we did in the past. Recently, we sometimes play instruments together and sing together however the feeling that I used to suppress is getting stronger. I really want this feeling to end but the more I get rid of it the tighter I get entangled.
Before he went away again for his job, I finally met his girlfriend. I talked with her at least even encouraged her and give pieces of advice.
Really do think my female bestfriend is the love of my life! We started working together about 7 years ago, both was in situations so it was purely platonic relationship..
This weekend in fact.. Victoria I am in this situation right now and I need some help. How do you know if your in love? I have a best friend. But now whenever i see him I just feel different.
Me, and my good friend were best friends in 4th grade I never thought of him as a crush. Then six grade started in August I saw him just a couple rooms down, and It felt electric it was like a needed to talk to him so we talked everyday for about a month, and I had a crush on him. We were still talking everyday, and then one day I just stopped thinking about him.
I felt happy when we would be talking, but when I got over him finnaly that night at about one o clock in the morning I started balling my eyes out, and did it every phew nights, but still be happy when I saw him. Tonight I spent a long time looking at the moon thinking about him still crying. Back in 4th grade on the last day of school they played ROAR by katy perry, and I still feel like crying everytime I hear that song.
Winter Omg green this is exactly my case. But I m currently trying out a relationship with him even though he is still not over the one who has hurt him so much. But I will never be able to love anyone except him. He said everything your BFF said too earlier but now he confessed that he never loved me.
It was like my whole life falling apart. Shattering from the very beginning. It sucks it really does. He got engaged while we were together and it really hurt but he kept coming back. I finally left the country and tried to get on with my life, though the pain and loss was still there.
A few years ago I found him again. I knew that I still loved him and I think he still loved me. He called me regularly but his life was what it was with his wife and grown children.
And your friend cannot give you what you deserve. You deserve to be loved fully by a man, someone who you can build a good life with, who you can laugh with, someone you can build a family with.
As painful as your situation is, and no matter how badly you feel, please be your own best friend. Take care of yourself first. Do not live for someone who cannot love you the way you should be loved.
When you are healed from this man, you will become open to someone who really loves you and who you love. It will happen, but you need to rid yourself of what is inside you now because it is toxic.
Eli So there are these two guys.. The first one I had a major crush on for 4 years… But early this year I realized that I needed to stop obsessing over him cause that was just not healthy.. So I told him I liked him and he said he dint have any feelings for me at all except to be friends…. So then I just decided to get completely over him. Meanwhile his best friend had been in love with one of my good friends… But she did not like him.. So i was trying to help him get over her and tell him she dint like him but like… nicely… cause I dint want to hurt him… So then we start talking quite a bit… And as the months pasted we started talking like 3 or 4 times a week and now these past 3 or 4 months we have been talking like every single day at least once..
About 2 months ago I got back from a 2 month missions trip and went to a ranch where I live…. He was completely in love with this short terms girl from the States… And had me in the middle of him asking if she wanted to kiss him… When I had gotten back I had just started to have feelings for him… But he was in love with this girl… So i was like ok.. When she leaves and he forgets about her then he can be mine… So finally she leaves… And little by little my feelings start to grow… We start talking all the time and like hanging out whenever we are together in groups and stuff.
Then recently one day… We held hands…. Its like I want to back out of this.. Nasma I like my best friend but he really likes my best friend and im stating to get angry and sad and this is depressing me. Like my best friend sorta told me to stay away from him today im not so sure for real,though. And i cant tell my parents because they will get mad at me.
I dont know what to do and i dont wanna loose my two friends or change schools. Can someone help me? Do u regret not liking them before they got a girlfriend? Because if u said yes to any of the 2 questions u do like them and have to come clear and tell them until it gets worst. U might feel better about telling them. And they may feel the same, single or not, some ppl just cant resist fallin in love.
If they do turn u down and tell u its too late, then try to move on because that friendship will keep on and u dont have to worry or regret about anything. Anonymous I had a similar problem. My best friend and I are so close, he knows my mind better than I do. But eventually I came to the inevitable conclusion that I loved him as more than my best friend. So I fought with my heart for 2 days before I blurted it out to him, rather publicly, too.
I love you Me: I love you too So it went very well and if anyone else get stuck in the scenario tell the truth and you may be surprised with the response ThatGuy I was in love with my best friend for 1 year. Roughly new years eve to new years eve We built a deep connection and bonded over so much, in our lives, what we aspire to be, etc.
Truth is she made me so happy and i truly care about her. So i finally grew the courage to ask her out and boom, like that it was a yes and she told me she had liked me for a long time.
So dont let your doubts about what they will think or say most likely they will like you back. If, she accepts when I propose her, it would be well and good. I fear of loosing her friendship too.
How shall I learn about the feelings she has for me. You guys are experienced in life and help me, please. I am depending on you. How long have you two known each other? Bill so I am only in highschool. I have a best friend and I am in love with her. We developed a good relationship for a solid two years.
Lately I had felt that we were just clicking better then usual. I started to gain feelings for her. I kept think about her constantly and then one night I finally said screw it and told her how I felt. She understood how I felt but did no feel the same way. What do I do? Charlie I love my best friend, she has a great personality and she believes in God like me. I have told her I like her in the past just to get it off my chest, but she was dating someone else.