Dating someone new after a stagnant, single life for a while always seems like a lot of fun. You may be having the time of your life playing secret footsies under a candlelit table and cuddling up in dark movie halls. But what do you do when you suddenly have to deal with the infamous, all too common ex boyfriend scenario?
Ever given that a thought? Why the hell is he pursuing her? This is the first thing you have to ask yourself. As flattered as you may be, you still need to understand that him trying to get in touch with your girlfriend does mean something. It could be unfinished business, maybe he wants to end the relationship better, or he wants a second chance. It sounds rude, but you need to think from all perspectives to get a fair idea of the situation. Just sit down calmly and let her do all the talking.
In your mind, think of yourself as the bouncer of a classy club. And even when you do interfere, step in smartly and speak calmly. Your only job in this new relationship is to protect your date when things get rough.
What do girls look for in a guy to fall for him? After all, it is her ex boyfriend and both of them did share a special relationship. If your girlfriend does ask him to go away, you have every right to enter the conversation and step in between them. After all, his conversation with her is over. Even if you win the fight, she may still feel sorry for her ex who has a broken nose, and go away wrapped in his arms.
If her ex boyfriend walks in on both of you, never ever walk away. But you know what, shit happens now and then. Well, unless you know your street fighter moves and are ready to K.
If her ex somehow pops into your date all the time or constantly stalks her, you need to get to the bottom of it. Get that answer first. Why are girls always so fickle in love? Because your new love story just all the more awesome! It makes all the difference between a pushover and a real man. Liked what you just read? Daniel Lincoln is a passionate writer, and a bookaholic who loves losing himself in fictional novels Follow Daniel on Facebook.