Reinhardt Reinhardt is an old soul looking to make his impact on the world. His interest include business, robotics, engineering, fitness, swimming, and more. Lots of women bashing. Some of these countries include Thailand, Singapore, Philippines, etc. For this article, I will speak only about Japan; having been there myself. Men on this site preach the red pill but forget that it applies to all women, not just women in certain countries.
So with that said, it is time I debunk some of these myths and bring you the reality. In Japan, there is a huge emphasis on avoiding shame. As a whole, Japanese society stresses the image of something as of utmost importance. This means that the avoidance of responsibility and duplicity could be more prevalent depending on the situation. On the bright side most of what I will mention below could be fixed by simply making it clear from the beginning what you will and will not tolerate.
There are cultural differences here to consider and you need to try extra hard to get the point across. For some men unfortunately, you will encounter the following problems. Lol no Many men are under the assumption that Japanese women are nice, submissive, and obedient.
There was a time in Japan where women were expected to behave this way but it is not like that anymore. Japanese women tend to act this way when you are simply dating them. They will cook for you. They will stop by your house to drop off a gift that was bought for you. All will seem nice and well until you put that ring on. When that happens, the act will disappear. Trust me on this. Do not be deceived. You should be even more alert if she knows that you are wealthy or of high status.
No control over finances In Japan, women tend to manage the money. The husband works many hours a week, gets his paycheck, and comes home only to give all of the money to the wife.
This happens even if the wife is not working, which is also common as Japan still has a large portion of married women who are homemakers. When it comes to making financial decisions, is also common for the wife to have the final say.
The wife typically makes all of these decisions. I ran into this problem with an ex of mine. She wanted access to my checking account and began telling me what I should buy with my own money.
I told her that I will do what I want with my money and that she has no business asking me about my financial assets. Of course this was a problem so I broke up with her. Extreme passive aggressiveness Here is a conversation I had with a woman I was dating.
I was staying at her house and this was late at night; not too long after we had sex. Go to the store and grab me something to eat. Get something out of the refrigerator.
I will just not eat though I am hungry. I left out the house and never came back. Of course she called multiple times over the next several weeks wondering what happened to me, but I was gone for good. I just cannot stand such blatant and poor attempts to manipulate me. This is all too common in Japan. The people there do their best to avoid conflict.
There is a huge emphasis on this and a strong aversion to complaining, even to your loved ones in private. Being seen as a complainer is one of the worse things possible in Japan. No matter how bad things are going for you, suck it up. A direct consequence of this is the inability to really speak directly and candidly. In Japan, it is nearly impossible to get someone to be forthright about something. This will include your personal relationships when dating so be prepared for a barrage of passive aggressiveness.
You thought American women and their shit tests were bad? Many women are running around there with some serious unchecked mental issues and you would not have the faintest idea at first. Problems such as abuse can be seen as normal and that behavior will be projected towards you.
There is also the chance of her pulling off a disappearing act, leaving you wondering what the hell happened. Your children will be taken away from you This is simple. You marry a Japanese women and then that day comes when you finally go through divorce. She will take away the children. In Japan, the wife will take them away from you and disappear.
In the United States at least some courts treat some men fairly. Sex will be withheld from you Another simple thing that needs to be mentioned is that all too often many men get married in Japan and have their first child.
Only to see that his wife has stopped having sex with him. Many men on ROK have said this is a deal breaker so nothing more needs to be said on the subject. There is also infidelity to consider. In conclusion Does any of what I mentioned sound familiar? I hope so because these are exactly the same complaints men on ROK typically have regarding women out here in the West. What needs to be said is that all women behave the same way generally speaking unless the culture checks that behavior.
I ask that you be very careful when dating, no matter where the woman is from.