What I've learnt from Online Dating 26 August , So I decided to try online dating, one thing I said only desperate people do. Boy was I in for many surprises. Dirty pics and chats were from the get go even though I was straight with them. I get there are people out there who like that stuff, but not all of us do and the moment you do that, guess what, delete and block. No hidden agendas or meanings in my summary dude.
It totally seems no one reads your online profile. They just look at your picture and message you. Bringing me to point number Ashley Madison is not the site to hack for married people seeking affairs, try normal online dating sites, the amount of married men that tried their luck with me was unbelievable! Not going to share my secret though.
You can get caught out because you deserve it. Guys, married ladies are lurking there too by the way. Some people have forgotten that online dating requires chatting. They send you a message or on Tinder they swipe right and you reply to them and nothing Listen guys, if you are going to swipe right or send a chat request be prepared to CHAT! Did you die of excitement when I replied???? Bringing me to my next point Online dating requires chatting skills.
Chances are you are just a distraction until the one he really wants comes along or because you are not a sex addict and they now know it they are not really interested until you finally give it up. Excuses to watch out for: I was embarrassed by it okay, that someone I know would see me and they have and even tried their luck and I was like dude If you want to chat to me put yourself out there too and that includes WeChat guys. And having no profile picture or a random non you pic scares me.
You could be a bored 15 year old who sends me to malls far from home only to be stood up! Online dating sites for a lot of users is just a manner of paying for sex. Whatsapp and BBM requests quicker than a blink. I know nothing about you so I will not give it to you just like that and then buggering off when I tell you not yet is not cool. Respect my privacy until I give you permission to come into that realm!
I would rather have those kinds of issues than end up being raped and stalked thank you very much. Do you think I will let just anyone see my nieces? And I would love to hear what you have to say, so drop a comment about your experience. This has been an eye opening experience for me.