My 19 year old son is dating a 15 year old, and You may say these are words, but I see the actions as well. It is natural - yet men complain about the women they date that their own daughters will eventually become. I have been saying this on forums here for a long time Grown men who want the woman they are dating to have sex within 3 dates Grown men who would kill males for deflowering thier little girls, wanting other mens daughters to be a dirty girl in bed Grown men who want home dates without ever meeting, yet they would be very upset if thier daughter wentto a strasngers home male.
I dont think sexual tensions between the sexes will go away, until all young ladies are given the same pat on the back for sexual conquests as the sons get. As long as young ladies are made to feel they need protection of thier 'sex', this will always be an issue. My whole life, whether it was uncles, older male cousins, my brothers and my Dad ALL got snarky at the thought of men wanting me for sex.
I was warned that men only want one thing from me Also, if there was an example of a young lady nearby who was known to be sexual, I was told 'she is a slut', 'dont be like her'. Then, I was supposed to become an adult and embrace my sexuallity, not have any preconceived notions, hangups or expectations around sex Talk about head games! In fact my Mom tried to make it so us girls had the same freedoms and 'rights' as the boys had, but she was fighting a losing battle against the men in my family.
I know the men were protecting me out of love. However, it did not do me any good when I was first becoming sexual, and I lost alot of good years worrying too damn much about being thought of as slutty for wanting and enjoying a perfectly natural act. Entering my thirties I changed alot, dropped the old attitudes I had been carrying On Topic-when one of the two in couple is underage, the issues that may arise really depend on how both of thier families react to it.
I would warn my son that other people may see him as a criminal for doing this and ask him to really ensure the young ladies parents are OK with the situation, because they could make things hard on him. Once he was armed with this information, and assuning he is the adult in the situation, all I can do is hope he chooses wisely. So far, my son being 18 now, this has not come up for us.
He has only dated ladies his own age or a tad older