Posts I started seeing my partner just after my 16th birthday, he was 21 at the time and the age gap was never an issue to us. Boys are less mature than girls and so it probably doesnt seem like a big difference to them. Her father and I only found out today as she doesn't live with us. We are really not happy with it and my partner says he is going to speak to her tonight. My question is - what should he say to her??
She is only just 15, a well behaved girl but easily led - she tried smoking and drinking when she fell in with a more adventurous friend and stopped when they fell out thankfully. I am obviously worried about what a 19 year old boy wants a 15 year old fairly immature girlfriend for!! What do we say to her? I have no way of implementing threats etc as she doesn't live with us, visits fri - sun very other weekend. I can imagine this is horrible for you.
I had a boyfriend when i was 11 and he was Stupid me getting led on. But my parents took the wrong approach by telling me to keep away and that i wasnt allowed to see him. So we dated till i was I regret it everyday! But i met my now husband when i was nearly He was 18 did turn 19 while i was still 15 My parents took a different approach with him, probably because he was different and wasnt just after me for sex.
My mum is a really good judge of character and realised he was a good man. After a few months of knowing him they let him stay over at the weekends we didnt share beds or bedroom, he had to sleep in the spare room. I think they let him stay aswell because he used to travel 90 miles every weekend to see me. I moved out at 17 so we could live together. At 18 i got pregnant with our daughter and we got married while i was 7 months pregnant.
We then moved to where he was originally from last march 90 miles away from all my family, but i still see them. We moved for work. Now i am 19 and we are expecting our second baby- a little boy Do you know anything about the 19 year old?
Maybe suggest meeting him. I wouldnt suggest moaning at her all the while though, it will push her closer to him - i know! Lol Forgot to add I think your daughter has probably gone for someone that age because i always think girls mature quicker than boys so maybe the boys her age are too immature for her.
Thats what i always thought anyway about the boys in my year lol i didnt go looking for an older man, it just happened.